Love feet. Adore feet. Worship feet. Never mind if there is a fetish label for it – you love what you love and nobody gets to choose. Feet are the base of our support and take us everywhere we go, so, they deserve all TLC one can give. And there are plenty of people out there with a foot fetish who would love to shower them with erotic devotion.
Having a foot fetish just means that you’re turned on by feet, and the kink often involves a psychological element of domination and humiliation.
Maybe you used to steal socks from the girl’s locker room during gym or swimming lessons. Maybe you knew whom they belong to and you fantasized and masturbated to her feet odor. And there’ is nothing wrong with that: you are not the only one that gets turned on through this fetish, and no, you are definitely not weird.
As with any fetish, it’s really up to the individual to explore and figure out what they enjoy about it. It is not like you have to smear your partner’s head with your foot sweat to pamper a foot fetish. There are so many ways to tease feet worshipper.
Footsie: a feet selfie – let’s be adult about it: anybody that is reading these lines has engaged in sexting long before and likes to send or receive some SMS & MMS sex. Then, it makes sense that, in order to tease your partner’s foot fetish, you send a selfie of your feet and provoke the lust: with different socks and shoes, in nylon or plain barefoot – flirt until both sex appetites sing along the Stone Roses hit “I wanna be adored” and request carnal devouring.
The lucky ones with a partner with foot fetish have a perk granted: they’re in for plenty of that tantric foot massages. Just relax as your partner rubs your feet after a long day and relieve you of all the pain of rushing through a day’s affaires to make the dime. For those that have a foot fetish, be nice and compliment your partner’s feet and gently offer a sensual foot massage.
The soles of your feet have more sensitive nerve endings per square centimeter than any other part of your body, thus, maybe you should learn some foot reflexology to set the mood and communicate with your partner to learn how much pressure they enjoy.
Foot fetishists can be turned on by psychological domination. If your partner has a foot fetish, have them kneel on their hands and knees at the edge of your couch or bed and use their back as a footrest. They may want to kiss your feet as a form of worship, making it a very safe form of erotic play. Foot-kissing is great by itself and marvelous as foreplay, which means that having your feet kissed can feel pretty pleasant – unless you’re ticklish and it becomes a funny laughing feast amidst hungry lips.
If both feel safe with one another, you may want to include some foot job while exploring the fetish, which sums up to using your feet to pleasure your sex. As a rule of thumb, keep in mind that since your feet are usually not as dexterous as your hands, giving a foot job can be challenging – but the amusement is all there, so stay your ground!
After all, your intimate relationship should never be one-sided. Work your feet fetishism into the sex play so that it is fun for both and respect one another’s desires during your sexual encounter.
YOLO – you only live once: maybe your feet fetishism is itching in your inner core to be fulfilled: since it is Carnival season, you can arrange a secret party with masquerades and lustful costumes, in communion of a spirit of savage excess and raw enjoyment of all sorts of mundane and sensual pleasures and, above all, with all those pretty feet dancing samba… all night long!
**This text does not reflect, necessarily, ApartadoX opinion.
